Tuesday, November 29, 2016

What We Say Matters

"The tongue has the power of life and death..." Proverbs 18:21-
Words do mean everything. This was a verse from church today and it made me think....a lot :) Hateful, spiteful, nasty comments show people exactly the kind of heart you have. I am amazed that people can be so mean, especially when speaking about someone who had struggles in their life like drug addiction and alcoholism. Of course, right now I'm thinking about Whitney Houston because it's all over the news and I've read so many posts, not for love or sympathy for the family, but filled with vile nastiness. It doesn't matter what a person's role in life is, we all make mistakes and are imperfect. I always think that the hate rolling off peoples tongues should burn them like acid because when I hear or read it, it really hurts ME for the person they are talking about. Then I wonder, maybe the person who is spewing that is struggling with their own things and truly they don't understand (because of immaturity mostly?) what it is to feel empathy for others. If we can only carry empathy for someone out of our own experiences, then it simply isn't enough. We need to look at the situation and realize that maybe our struggle is with apples and another person struggles with oranges. It doesn't matter because in the grand scheme of things, it's all the same to God. If we think we are better because we RANK mistakes in order from bad to worse, we need to think again, because He doesn't.

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